Love and money was a topic I discussed all through the beginning of last week. I listened to various perspective on this topic and I was able to reason out some facts.
Many I spoke with, feels that love can not function without the support of money. They compliment each other, like tea and sugar.
Some said they will not date a partner who has no job. No matter how much they love him and that does not make them a gold digger.
They only want a financially stabIe man, that will not ask them for money and will be seen as responsible. This was said by women.
Another school of thought believes that, money is needed to move a relationship forward. You cannot get married with an empty pocket and live on love.
There are bills to be paid and love can not pay those bills. Some women also believe that, love will eventually fade away if they continue to be in a marriage with a man that can not provide for them.
From what I gathered, money plays a pivotal role in solidifying a relationship built on love and every other foundation.
In my own opinion, money is necessary in a relationship but love is the bonding factor that brings two people together.
For some people, a relationship cannot be established without love and that is also my believe.
These type of people will probably not think of money at the beginning of a relationship and money will also not be a primary attraction.
Moreover, anyone that sees money as a primary reason for getting into a relationship, should not forget that people can lose their jobs and businesses.
What would you do, when that happens? Abandon your partner because he or she is broke or work with him or her to rise up again.
Everyone is entitled to his or her own opinion. To me love, is above money and it makes a relationship more interesting. Money is also a necessity but it shouldn’t be a primary focus in a relationship.