I’ve come to terms with a lot of things and l’ve also realised it is not healthy to harbour bitterness or live with it.
When your partner offends or hurt you and you decide to forgive and stay on in the relationship. Please Forgive and forget. Don’t continue to hold it against your partner because it can kill your love for him/her.
Holding a permanent grudge against your partner or anyone in general, is not a healthy way to live. So many people don’t know how to let go of pain and anger. Whichever way we look at it, once you have decided to forgive, you’re indirectly healing yourself.
We should seldom react when an outsider hurt our feelings, because people we love or are closely related to us, can do the same thing or even worse. Thus if we see things in this light, it will be easier to forgive.
I don’t like to live a life of bitterness and hatred. Over the years, I’ve learnt to forgive and forget. No matter the degree of pain inflicted upon me by my partner or whoever, I always forgive. I may not necessarily continue with the relationship, but l will bear no grudge or bitterness.
To err is human and to forgive is divine. In this season of love and giving, let us include forgiveness on our to do list and make it part of our new year resolutions. Whatever anyone does to hurt us, we should not give them the satisfaction of winning. Pls forgive and let go of your anger.